Lay the child on a blanket and roll them up snugly, arms in, face always uncovered and clear. Once rolled, apply slow, firm, even pressure along their body with flat hands or a big pillow — like a gentle full-body hug. This deep-pressure input is calming for many children and a favourite request for a reason.
What you need
- a large blanket
How to do it
- 1Lay the blanket flat and have the child lie down at one end, arms close to their body.
- 2Roll them up snugly but not tight — this is a 'burrito,' and the face must always stay uncovered and easy to breathe.
- 3"I'm going to press down gently, all the way from your shoulders to your feet — tell me if you want more or less."
- 4Press with flat hands or a large pillow, slow and even, checking in with words the whole time.
Variations
- If they don't like being rolled tightly: a loose wrap with just hand pressure on top works just as well for the calming effect.
- How it ends: unroll slowly and end with one long, firm hug — a clear, gentle close to the pressure.
💡 Parent tip
Always ask before starting and check in throughout — this only works as a calming tool if the child feels fully in control of stopping it.
What your child develops
- Proprioceptive regulation — deep pressure input is a well-documented calming technique for overstimulated nervous systems
- Body trust — consenting to and directing pressure builds a child's sense of control over their own sensory input
- Vocabulary for sensation — 'more,' 'less,' 'too tight' gives them language for future self-advocacy
Safety notes
- The face must stay uncovered at all times. Never apply pressure to the head, neck, or stomach. Stop immediately if the child asks to stop.
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